For all of those new to a recovery program, some advice i can give you is JUST GIVE IT A CHANCE!!!.  I've learned that if you go into a program with a very open mind and just stop thinking about everything all the time, just let each day happen and except those things that happen.  Go to meetings and get a sponsor.  Even if you get a sponsor, it doesnt mean you have to keep him or her.  You can always switch to someone you feel more comfortable with.  The biggest thing to remember is just stick it out and it's ok to ask for help, no one can go at it alone!!